I started my career in television when I was 22. This was at an NBC station. And there was one woman in particular who was the lead anchor on the six o'clock news. I was so excited about the chance to learn from her, she was a total journalistic rock star in that market. And she was also an incredible bully. It stayed with me in a very deep and personal way and has led to me being overly responsible when it comes to supporting professionals starting their career in this business.
That bad experience led me to become a mentor, to be someone who always says yes to informational interviews and how-to-get-started calls. It’s really important to me to help and support people coming into their careers and get them excited about all of the incredible opportunities. Because a lot of this industry is relationships and collaborations.
My mentor is Tom Baker, he was the original co-publisher of the Wall Street Journal Online. I worked for him when I was at Dow Jones many years ago. His thoughtful approach to leadership and ability to respond with a clear mind to challenges taught me a lot. I think if you ask for guidance and advice in a polite and positive way that makes it convenient for that person, they’ll want to help and support you.
I don't think people should be shy about reaching out to someone they admire in the industry and developing a relationship with them. That’s how Sarah van Mosel and I got to be great friends. I totally fangirled her back when she was at Radiotopia around 10 years ago. I invited her to the Flatiron Building in New York (where I was working for Macmillan) to visit our team because I was incredibly impressed with the work she was doing in the early days of this industry.
Look at a mentor/mentee relationship in a nonlinear way where it’s mutually beneficial. Just like any relationship, it has to be collaborative and not one-sided. Ask your mentor if you can volunteer at an event they're running – or if you can beta test a new feature if they work for one of the platforms. I firmly believe this industry above many others is all about the relationships we build and the great care we take of each other to get the best results possible.
I think it's really great when a mentee comes back and says, “Hey, you know, the guidance you gave me for that upcoming interview really helped me and I nailed the job,” or even “I didn't get the job.” That feedback loop is important.
I think it's important that we as creators reach out to other creators to let them know when something they do has the intended impact. I actually did that recently with a podcast called Weight for It. It's about Ronald Young Jr.’s journey with his body, with weight, and issues of navigating that world with relationships, with parents with family, the whole ball of wax. And I just fell hard for it. I reached out to him, sent him a really long email with all the things that I loved about the show, just to say I thought for so many people, it's incredibly relatable. And I just love that he created this show. He put himself out there in a way that I hadn't seen before.